You see, insecurity has a look, a touch and a smell.
A suitor can tell just by looking at you that you don’t feel worthy for their attention.
Some of them have children with a beautiful brown woman.
You should not assume because they are lighter in hue that they are ANY less black than you. If we stopped fighting against each other, we could see the bigger picture: as a whole we are winning!
We are beautiful in all shades and women straight from Africa can be light, dark, mixed or otherwise.
They’ll either completely bypass you, or get with you and use you to their advantage.
A true queen holds her head up so that her crown doesn’t fall.
In fact, I know several who could have their pick of any man they wanted.